When I was a child I was very good at football and
baseball. Since it was the seventies,
and while women’s lib has began to change things for those of us of the female
persuasion, little league was still off limits to me. It would be another few
years, before I ever saw a girl playing on an organized team filled with boys. Even though I was good enough, I had to sit on the sidelines.
years, before I ever saw a girl playing on an organized team filled with boys. Even though I was good enough, I had to sit on the sidelines.
Then, when I was ten years old, my school had team
tryouts for a girl’s softball team. It
wasn’t baseball, but it was the closest I would ever get to it. So, I immediately signed up. I couldn’t speak of anything else. My enthusiasm was practically boiling
over. However, on the day of the tryout,
my nerves started to settle in until they took over my whole Being. In one fell swoop, my ardor was replaced with
shear and undeniable fear.
I feigned sickness to my mother and proclaimed that I would
not be attending my tryouts. Thankfully,
Mom figured out what was going on and she made
me go. Admittedly, I was not a happy
camper and I grumbled during my entire walk back to the school field—but, then I
tried out and made the team! Needless to
say, I was on my very own cloud 9. I can
remember my mother’s smile as I returned home announcing my good fortune.
While I have long since turned in my cleats, my
passion for things that I care about certainly has not died. However, sometimes fear makes itself known to
me and once again I turn into that ten year old girl that I once was.
It recently happened when I was asked to be on my
friend, Karen Hager’s radio show as her guest.
I knew for a month in advance that I would be on her show and I was
excited. I want to be on stage, teaching others what I have learned in my
life. This is why I am here. I know this to be true from the bottom of my
heart to the tips of my toes and fingernails and back up through the crown of my
head. I am a teacher. Unfortunately,
even though I know this to be true, my fear button kicked on and my nerves felt
like they might explode at any given moment.
In fact, I almost called the whole thing off—twice. I wrote Karen a note—also twice—telling her I
was not right for the show saying I could not possibly do it. Thankfully, on these occasions, the Universe
intervened on my behalf, and told me to delete both emails before I sent
them. OK, so I would “have” to do the
shows. The only way I thought I could
handle it though was to write a big fat script so that I could read my lines
instead of having a normal conversation—that way, I couldn’t possibly make a
mistake and show the world that I am human.
I had done this very thing before on all my previous appearances and I would
just have to do it again.
For weeks, I had intended on each day to write out my
notes, but life always seemed to interfere so that I could not be prepared. Even the day before the show, I only had a
two hour window for prep-work and I got stuck in traffic and couldn’t do
anything about it. I laughed as I stared
at the cars surrounding me, because I knew what the Universe was doing. The show must go on and I had to just wing it
without knowing where the road was taking me.
…and that’s what I did.
Ten minutes beforehand, I boiled the water in the
kettle and filled my oversized tea mug with the hot water along with a bag of calm tea (yes, it is really called calm)
and went on the air. I was nervous and I
know where I left out things that I wanted to say, but when I listened to the
recording later, I realized that I actually sounded pretty good and the things I
left out, were not that big of a deal.
I patted myself on the back, because I did it and I felt
really good. I was taking my next step
towards actually being on stage talking to a large group. It was then when I began to receive comments
on how good I was on the show. People I didn’t
know signed up for my monthly newsletter and on my Facebook page—and that felt
good too. I was being reminded that this
is why I am here.
It seems to me that we have this idea that Spiritual Awakening
means that fears suddenly jump off of our personal ships never to be heard from
again. What really happens is that fear
may show its face from time to time and when it does we then have an
opportunity to say, “Hey, I see you there
and I recognize you, but I am going full speed ahead just the same. So, take that you ego-voice inside my head! I am listening to Spirit!”
Let’s face it, we can all just sit on the sidelines
watching life pass us by, or we can get right on in there and do our thing
anyway. What will happen when we face
our fears is that there will be a whole lot of smiling faces.
We will be on our missions that we came here to do—and believe me that
is a beautiful thing.
Thank you for reading and Namaste! (The Light in me
recognizes the Light in you!)
PS. If you would like to
listen in on my guest appearance on Karen Hager’s Out of the Fog show from March 26, 2013, please visit my site HERE.
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